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the-pi-guy · Sep 04, 2015, 07:10 PM

Quote from: Dr. Pezus on Sep 04, 2015, 07:08 PMWhat's a perspective lady?

A lady that covers these criteria
A.) Dateable (not related... hopefully...)
B.) Talkable (someone who you regularly are able to talk to. Classmates, doctor-mates. Not some random chick that you saw at the grocery store.)
And preferable
C.) Likeable (someone that you could see yourself dating)

Dr. Pezus · Sep 04, 2015, 07:14 PM

Quote from: the-Pi-guy on Sep 04, 2015, 07:10 PMA lady that covers these criteria
A.) Dateable (not related... hopefully...)
B.) Talkable (someone who you regularly are able to talk to. Classmates, doctor-mates. Not some random chick that you saw at the grocery store.)
And preferable
C.) Likeable (someone that you could see yourself dating)

Well, I am in a relationship so I guess so lol

Gooch probably knows too much because he added me on FB

Gooch_Suplex_Hold · Sep 04, 2015, 07:19 PM

Quote from: the-Pi-guy on Sep 04, 2015, 07:04 PMI don't see anything.
Is there a perspective lady in your life?
You tell me. Is something going?
Are you talking to someone?

nah.

the-pi-guy · Sep 04, 2015, 07:21 PM

Quote from: Dr. Pezus on Sep 04, 2015, 07:14 PMWell, I am in a relationship so I guess so lol
Gooch probably knows too much because he added me on FB

I didn't know this!
Hmmm, but do you need any dating advice? Or are ya'll pretty happy?

I only have Raven.

Quote from: Gooch_Suplex_Hold on Sep 04, 2015, 07:19 PMnah.

Is there someone who you could be talking to, that you want to be?

Gooch_Suplex_Hold · Sep 04, 2015, 07:42 PM

Quote from: the-Pi-guy on Sep 04, 2015, 07:21 PMI didn't know this!
Hmmm, but do you need any dating advice? Or are ya'll pretty happy?

I only have Raven.
Is there someone who you could be talking to, that you want to be?

Yeah...

DD_Bwest · Sep 05, 2015, 12:07 AM

just go for it, you never know till you try

Aura7541 · Sep 05, 2015, 03:02 AM

DD_Bwest · Sep 05, 2015, 07:01 AM

Quote from: Aura7541 on Sep 05, 2015, 03:02 AM

Gooch_Suplex_Hold · Oct 03, 2015, 05:43 PM

NeoGAF - View Single Post - Dating-Age |OT5| Halp me pls. In the bathroom.

QuoteI tried out another girl today, She is a tutor at school but her partner cancelled.
So I casually talked to her even joked about the Early College students. I had to play the role of the wing-man for a friend who was also interested in her. I asked about him on his behalf, she said he was cool and nice and stuff like. But anyway, I asked if she wanted to go get breakfast but she declined. I knew it wasn't going to go that direction.
Alright, did I do it right?

Riderz1337 · Oct 03, 2015, 10:59 PM

Honestly, I don't know how I'll ever get a girlfriend. I'm just extremely shy when it comes to people and even MORE so when it comes to girls I find attractive. Plus it's sort of expected for the guy to be the one to ask the girl out but god dang I'm too shy.

Theres a girl I'm interested in at work but I don't know, she seems out of my league looks wise...And if I ask her out and says no what then? It's going to be awkward as fudge at work, which is why I don't think I'll ever let her know that I like her...*sigh*

the-pi-guy · Oct 03, 2015, 11:14 PM

Quote from: Riderz1337 on Oct 03, 2015, 10:59 PMHonestly, I don't know how I'll ever get a girlfriend. I'm just extremely shy when it comes to people and even MORE so when it comes to girls I find attractive. Plus it's sort of expected for the guy to be the one to ask the girl out but god dang I'm too shy.

Theres a girl I'm interested in at work but I don't know, she seems out of my league looks wise...And if I ask her out and says no what then? It's going to be awkward as fudge at work, which is why I don't think I'll ever let her know that I like her...*sigh*

Ask her for coffee or something.

Somethung thats subtle enough to be just a friend thing, but big enough to move forward.

Riderz1337 · Oct 03, 2015, 11:24 PM

Quote from: the-Pi-guy on Oct 03, 2015, 11:14 PMAsk her for coffee or something.

Somethung thats subtle enough to be just a friend thing, but big enough to move forward.

I barely even talk to her at work, just the occasional hello and bye and sometimes work related conversations (quite short). I feel like going up to her and asking for something like that is waaay too forward. To be honest I really don't think she's attracted to me...That's most likely it. I don't know...=/

I'm not depressed or anything I'm just tired of being alone...It just sucks seeing other people with significant others. I don't bad mouth them in my head or anything, just wish I had something like that with someone.

darkknightkryta · Oct 03, 2015, 11:31 PM

Quote from: Riderz1337 on Oct 03, 2015, 11:24 PMI barely even talk to her at work, just the occasional hello and bye and sometimes work related conversations (quite short). I feel like going up to her and asking for something like that is waaay too forward. To be honest I really don't think she's attracted to me...That's most likely it. I don't know...=/

I'm not depressed or anything I'm just tired of being alone...It just sucks seeing other people with significant others. I don't bad mouth them in my head or anything, just wish I had something like that with someone.

I guess a simple "Hi, how was your day?" on the way out I guess would be a good ice breaker. But yeah, I feels ya bro. I'm in the same situation.

the-pi-guy · Oct 03, 2015, 11:36 PM

Quote from: Riderz1337 on Oct 03, 2015, 11:24 PMI barely even talk to her at work, just the occasional hello and bye and sometimes work related conversations (quite short). I feel like going up to her and asking for something like that is waaay too forward. To be honest I really don't think she's attracted to me...That's most likely it. I don't know...=/

I'm not depressed or anything I'm just tired of being alone...It just sucks seeing other people with significant others. I don't bad mouth them in my head or anything, just wish I had something like that with someone.

I'll agree with dkk.

Kerotan · Oct 04, 2015, 04:07 AM

Quote from: Riderz1337 on Oct 03, 2015, 10:59 PMHonestly, I don't know how I'll ever get a girlfriend. I'm just extremely shy when it comes to people and even MORE so when it comes to girls I find attractive. Plus it's sort of expected for the guy to be the one to ask the girl out but god dang I'm too shy.

Theres a girl I'm interested in at work but I don't know, she seems out of my league looks wise...And if I ask her out and says no what then? It's going to be awkward as fudge at work, which is why I don't think I'll ever let her know that I like her...*sigh*

Drink can do wonders my friend. Going on a sober date, have a sneaky shot of vodka before you go out. Really takes off the edge.

Or just go out and get smashed. Go home with an equally shy girl who got smashed for the same reason.

And wake up the next day with your sucker wedged in her muff. You kinda have to talk about things then yano?

If that doesn't work just do what I did.

Ask a pretty lady if she just farted.

Lady: No why?

You: because you blew me away

Cha ching boom and within a year you're married and the only thing she's blowing out is kids.

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