He did say he had run out of patienceYes, but it seems so "I'm out of patience, here's Spider-man Children!" Like, in no situation is Spider-man an ace in the hole. Why hide him like that? It'd be better to hide Black Panther or whoever else is new in this movie. Or better yet, hide everyone new. There were also very serious issues with why Spider-man joined Stark, and unless they have something else that emotional, why would he join Iron Man over Cap?
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