you maybe. i can't really raid. with my baby i just can't find more than a 45 min stretch where i can commit to not walking away from my controller in the middle of a boss fight. my friend palidingl is cool about it but he was also my best man. i just don't feel good about seeking out a raid knowing at some point i'm going to be the bumb that wipes the raid.
basically my problem with the raids as well... can really dedicate that stretch of time to raiding... did it once or twice I think though, but it took a while to set up a good time to do it and had really good parties so it didn't take tooo long :/