I read something here:
https://www.pcgamesn.com//neogaf/neogaf-down-sexual-harassmentEdit - Reading everything I felt a bit confused... is the American (or European) culture so much strange compared with Brazilian? A girl travel with a man and go bed in the same room? That didn't happen here if you don't expect something to happen (from the girl side too) even more drunk like they are... of course one or other will try something else.
The girls here have self respect... a girl won't go sleep in the same room with a man if she didn't want anything... no matter how friend they are.
It is a bit weird to understand what happened in these harassment accusations when the culture is so different.
I don't know if you guys are understanding me here... I'm not defending him or harassing... it is just weird to me girls be so open to the point to be seductive... if you are so open then you give the right to the man to try something with you.
You will say she said "no" yeap I understand but girls are weird and it is impossible to know what "no" means because they like to game with us... it is not the first time even with my girlfriend saying no to me and I'm the other day she get angry to me because she wanted on yesterday night and the No was just to me try try try until she felt it was enough lol she wanted but she was trying to be difficult like every woman.
Woman "No" didn't reflect what she wants after all... it can be true or it can be a game or being difficult on pourpose... it is hard.
That is why I thing woman and man needs to have self respect... I don't sleep in the same room than my woman friend... not two of us... it is not apropriate...
I read these harassment stories and it fells so weird to the point I felt like a devil or bad because the cultural difference.
I won't ever accept my girlfriend doing trips with friends... drink together? c'mon... sleep in the same room? That ridiculous.
My girlfriend won't ever accept that... she kills me first before something like that happens.
That is true for most if all Brazilians that lives in Brazil.
Everybody deserves respect but you should conquest respect with action... if you do these things of course others will not respect you.